Paw & Order: How to Manage One Dog Stealing from the Other

 

It’s an age-old question that dog trainers get all the time:

“What do I do about my puppy stealing toys from my other dog?”

As humans, of course we want our dogs to ‘play nice and share.’ What we need to remember is that dog play can look different from dog to dog, and pack to pack; depending on the ages of the dogs, as well as breeds, health, and temperaments.

So...what should you do when one of your dogs is stealing toys from the other? Read on to find out more.

The #1 Human Trait that is Ruining Your Dog Training

 

Trainer Jen here - to let you in on a little dog training secret.

Whether you sent your dog off to a board & train program and you received back a ‘trained dog’… or you just finished up going through training classes where you trained your dog yourself, your dog isn’t trained.

Let me say that again.

Your dog isn’t trained.

Wait. What?????

That’s right. If your dog has just recently finished up a training program, your dog is not yet actually ‘trained.’

Instead, your dog has the foundation of training. The beginnings of training. The tip of the iceberg, so to speak.

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Mastering Peace: Unlocking the Mystery of Separation Anxiety

Dog training is an essential aspect of pet ownership that can significantly improve the quality of life for both dogs and their owners.

Among the various challenges that dog owners face, separation anxiety is one of the most common behavioral issues dogs are relinquished to shelters for.

This problem not only affects the well-being of the dog but can also lead to stress and frustration for the owner. In this article, we will explore effective strategies for addressing separation anxiety, as well as provide recommendations for training resources that can assist in these situations.

Key Takeaways

• Separation anxiety can manifest in various ways, including destructive behavior and excessive barking.

• Professional training and behavior modification techniques can help address separation anxiety effectively.

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Dear Humans: Please Choose Your Next Dog Wisely - Love, The Dogs of the World

 

WARNING: This may be a controversial or provocative post. As always, it is meant to get you thinking - about dogs, about yourself, and how to improve your life with your current and future canine companions.

But, I realize some folks will be triggered by it.

It still needs to be said.

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Potty Training is Hard, Unless You Know These 6 Tips and Tricks

 

So…you got a new puppy. Or a new rescue dog.

And now the fun begins - well, mostly fun. Except that your new pooch seems to think your most expensive rugs are the perfect doggy toilet station.

Potty training can be elusive for many dogs and owners, but it doesn’t have to be. Read on to find out more!

Socializing your puppy is hard, unless you know this pro trick

Socialization. It’s a buzz word that’s thrown about by puppy owners, dog trainers, groomers, veterinarians - really anyone and everyone in the dog world.

If you have a new puppy, you might have even already searched for a trainer who offers puppy socialization classes.

But what IS Socialization?

And is there a right way (or wrong way) to do it? Read on to find out more!

Back to School - for the Dogs!

It’s that time of year.

Kids are back in school; establishing the routines of getting out of bed early and heading off to classes - spending their days (hopefully) learning useful, meaningful lessons, and probably having homework and tests.

But what about the dogs?

With the Winter Holiday Season just around the corner, now is a great time to make sure Fifi or Fido’s manners and obedience are up to par - BEFORE the turkey, ham, and other goodies hit the table, and BEFORE the guests arrive, or the travel to family or friends’ houses begins.

So…it’s time for a pop quiz! How is your dog’s Report Card looking in the following areas?

Can't See the Forest for the Trees...

 Trainer Jen here.

In her book, The Science of Natural Healing, Dr. Mimi Guarneri talks about her patients’ health like a tree - with the leaves being various forms of disease (heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, etc.).

The trunk of the tree is comprised of our genes - our genetic makeup - “the book of life we are given.”

Last, she describes the soil (environment) that the tree is in, and that how we nurture the soil - what we put into our soil (micro & macro nutrients, mental, spiritual, and emotional support, exercise, etc.) - will determine a lot about the health of the tree.

This analogy really struck a chord with me, and got me thinking about how it could be applied to dog behavior (because, let’s be honest, that’s how my brain works…I am ALWAYS thinking about dog behavior on some level or another…). Read on to see how your dog's behaviors (leaves) are shaped by it's genetic makeup (trunk) and environment (soil!)

Secret Dog Trainer Pet Peeve #432. The “use it or lose it” dilemma.

 I was more than a little excited to see my next dog training client. So excited, in fact, that I was waiting at the door, peering out into the parking lot of the training facility.

These were smart, dedicated dog owners; and I was anxious to see how they had progressed since our last session.

As I saw their car pull into the parking lot - right on time - I looked forward to watching them walk the dog in.

When they began working with me, their dog had been a lunging, barking tyrant on the leash.

But so far, training had gone really, really well - and he’d begun to be transformed into a dog who actually cared who was at the other end of the leash. The last time he’d been in, he was actively and happily looking to them for guidance, even when there were other dogs or people around.

They had been on vacation for 2 weeks, but there had been no emails expressing any troubles, so I was more than hopeful things were still right on track.

Here they came….

And…my heart dropped.

You know the kind of disappointment that even if you’ve experienced it a hundred times - it still hits you right in the gut every time it happens?

Yeah.

The small-but-strong dog was dragging hard on the leash; hard enough to be coughing and gagging. His training collar and the handling skills I’d worked so hard to teach the owners in previous weeks were nowhere to be seen.

I opened the door to the training facility and instructed them... read on.

Death Before Discomfort? Holes in the 'positive-only' training approach

 

I sat on the floor in disbelief.

Siobhan - my collie, my girl, my #1 demo dog, my coworker and friend of nearly 12 years was breathing raggedly. Her head and muzzle were swollen beyond recognition. Her eyes were glassy.

Her vital organs & all systems were shutting down. But she continued her fragmented, agonal breathing.

I had spent the last 24 hours with her, medicating her continuously to try to control her pain, and praying for a miracle.

The rattlesnake that had bitten her packmate, Trinity, had also gotten her. ... read on

Let's talk about TEETH!

 Let’s talk about teeth!

Is your dog suffering from stinky breath?  Do you notice plaque and tartar build-up on his or her teeth?

Dental care is just important for our pets as it is for us.   According to Webmd.com, by the time they are three years old, most dogs show some signs of gum disease.  This can lead to painful infections, and even heart disease.

A healthy mouth supports a healthy dog! 

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Just because You have a Nice Dog, Doesn't Mean You have a GOOD Dog!

The caller on the phone was relieved to be talking to an actual dog trainer.

As she described what was going on with her young Golden Retriever, she was nearly in tears of frustration.

As she talked about the over-excitement, the jumping up on everyone, and the extreme pulling on the leash - having been pulled down flat on her face more than once - I nodded in sympathy (even though she couldn’t see that through the phone lines), assuring her we could help.

This is a typical phone call for us, several times per week.

The calls come from owners who are at their wits end, but who don’t have ‘problem dogs’ - just nice dogs, with some problem behaviors that we have answers for.

These are the ‘easy’ cases that we love; because after nearly 34 years in the professional dog training world, we know our method will bring about a quick, effective, lasting change in these naughty behaviors.

After assuring the caller for the 3rd or 4th time that we could help, and beginning to explain that the first step is to come in with her dog for an initial (free) training session, she dropped the bomb:

”But she’s a good dog! She’s really nice - and friendly!”

I sighed. Click here to read on...

GUEST POST: Trainer Graham Buck on Dog Parks

 

GUEST POST:  Dog Trainer Graham Buck on Dog Parks

This week, we’re excited to have Dog Trainer Graham Buck, of Buck’s Best Dogs in NY, chime in on the Dog Park theme. Buch spent 31 years as a trainer of Guide Dogs. His complete bio can be found below the article.

After reading our last blog post on Dog Parks, Buck wanted to respond, and add some additional points:

DOG PARKS

I felt the need to respond to this very thorough and well thought out post about dog parks. The blog is filled with so many facts, history and discussion about the dog park culture.

Why do most reputable trainers not recommend dog parks? READ ON TO FIND OUT!

Why Do Dog Trainers Hate Dog Parks So Much?

Earlier this week on social media, I posted and shared a graphic (reprinted below) about the many problems of dog parks, including spread of disease, unsuitable & improper social interactions, increased aggression and behavior problems in dogs who frequent these parks regularly and the list goes on.  

This is not a new theme for me (or many other professional dog trainers).

However, in spite of repeated messages and warnings and shared internet articles, etc., I know many of my clients still frequent dog parks - and often admit to doing so sheepishly, when asked about it.

Sharing the graphic resulted in a lot of "Hear! Hear" agreement, and a few dissenters.  

One dissenter in particular, had the essential argument of "Let dogs be dogs."  However, this particular person frequents beautiful, large, unfenced, open dog beaches - a very different proposition than the cramped, often dirty, overpopulated urban dog parks of my area.

When dog parks first began, in 1983 in Berkeley, CA, I probably would have agreed with the idea of letting dogs get out and stretch their legs and be dogs.

However, the dog parks of today are completely different (at least where I live, work and train dogs for a living). There are too many cramped, fenced, well-over-capacity urban dog parks teaming with all of the issues listed in the graphic posted below.

A little history of both myself and my dog park experience: While dog parks may have begun in CA in 1983, they didn't become popular for quite a while (again, at least where I live & train).

I began training dogs professionally in 1990, and the first dog park didn't arrive in my area until 1997 - this seems to be true for most of the middle of the country, with trends starting on the coasts and moving inward.

Even then, the dog park in question was HUGE - multiple acres with hiking trails and side yards - and used by just a few people. The dogs would do exactly as Joe describes - meet, sniff, and generally either ignore each other, or have a short romp and return to interact with their owners or other humans there. There was of course the very limited, occasional scuffle once in a while, but the dogs had ample room to get away from each other if they wanted, and most were busy being dogs - which meant sniffing and exploring, not trying to interact with each other constantly.

Fast forward 27 years to today's urban dog parks: There is an urban dog park 1.6 miles from my dog training facility. This particular park is small, at less than 2 acres, gravel, not grass (hard on the feet), & chain link fenced. There is little-to-no shade, and no benches or seating for the humans - all a far cry from the lush beaches and sprawling, grassy dog parks so many people envision.

Now - if there were only a few dogs who frequented the place occasionally, sure, fine...great place for apartment-dwelling dogs to get out and stretch. But the place is regularly packed - 20 to 40 dogs at a time. It reeks of urine. There have been multiple dog attacks and more than one death due to fighting. It's basically a prison movie-of-the-week for dogs, and the only exciting thing about it is wondering who'll get shanked next.

Ok, perhaps I'm some hysterical, control-freak, as my dissenting commenter would have you believe. But let's again look at some hard & fast numbers:

I have trained dogs professionally for nearly 34 years. I have owned, trained, and raised 36 personal dogs (I say this because anytime someone says they've grown up with dogs and owned a lot, they usually have! But for the average human 'a lot' is often around 10 to 15 dogs over a lifetime), and I have evaluated and trained over 8000 dogs - and the trainers under my guidance have trained another 700+ dogs.

That is a lot of dog experience! I will grant that I am probably more sensitive to the fall out from dog parks and current dog culture than the average pet owner.

In fact, the trainers of Front Range K9 Academy and I just talked about this - discussing that yes, probably 90% of the time when dogs who don't know each other get together, they 'work it out' and things go fine.

BUT my training staff and I (and all of the other professional trainers in the U.S.) see the 10% that don't work it out.

We have seen a steady (400%) increase in dog aggression and reactivity cases in the last 15 years or so. That increased number is not normal, and should be a clear signal that something is wrong.

Dogs don't evolve that fast, so there must be an external factor, or factors.

Dog parks like the one I describe above are very likely one of those factors.

Dogs, as they mature, are like us - their social circles close and they have a desire to be intimate with those they are close to - whether that is humans or other dogs/animals. Dogs are social creatures. Humans are social creatures. But we desire INTIMATE social interactions (like play) with those we know - NOT with strangers. Forced social intimacy with strangers is weird and stressful, and compounds over time.

Does that mean dogs can't meet and get along with new dogs? Of course not, but the dog park is a HUMAN invention, with unnatural, forced social interactions. And tiny, fenced in parks don't allow the room to keep that stress to a minimum Study after study of all sorts of animals tracks how stress rises in overpopulated situations.

Some breeds (hounds, sporting breeds) most likely do fine in more packed social settings - we've selectively bred them for centuries to work and live in large packs. But herding and working breeds, and terriers may be a different bag of snacks all together - we've selectively bred these dogs for centuries to be 'in charge'...

Add to that, when entering a modern urban dog park, an owner has no idea of the level of social etiquette, what breed mixes, what training, nor what health care and immunizations any given dog there has had.

And add to THAT the simple fact that dogs ARE territorial. If frequenting the same dog parks all the time, the likelihood of some territorial instincts kicking is a relevant issue. (Ask any doggy daycare staff what happens when the same dogs come to daycare too often...)

Now - add it all up: We have a mixed bag of breeds and breed mixes, ages, sizes, and temperaments of dogs who are NOT related, are NOT a pack.

And we're simply going to roll the dice, bank on that 90% number I pulled out of my hat, and hope it will all be ok.

No thanks.

Life is full of risks. Every time you get in a car and drive somewhere, you have a chance of a wreck. Every time you take your dog out in public, something *could* happen.

But, there are risks you can choose and those you cannot. Going to the dog park is a risk I advise strongly against.

I'd rather my puppy owners and my dog training clients do what people did BEFORE the invention of dog parks...train your dogs. Walk your dogs. Work your dogs. Play with your dogs.

It's not the job of the dog park, or the dogs & people of the dog park to exercise and socially stimulate your dog.

It's yours.

The graphic mentioned above, posted on FB by stateofmind_dogtraining.

Jennifer Hime is the Owner & Training Director at Front Range K9 Academy in Wheat Ridge, CO.  She has been training dogs in Colorado professionally since 1990. Jennifer can be reached through K9counselor.com.

What Should You REALLY Look for in a Dog Trainer?

Trainer & Training Coordinator, Margaret Whitaker, and Bohannon

A while back, I wrote about whether or not you should care if your dog trainer has any awards or titles on their own dogs or dogs they've trained. 

But in addition to a trainer with the knowledge and dedication it takes to earn titles with their own dogs, what ELSE should you look for in a dog trainer?

The internet is full of articles touting claims like "The Top 5 Things to Look for in a Dog Trainer" or "How to Find the Right Dog Trainer for Your Dog" and on and on.

A quick scan of most of these articles quickly begins to read like a vanilla ice cream recipe:

"Find someone with certifications" - Even though the dog training industry is unregulated, soooo many of those certifications may not hold a lot of water...

"Look for someone who uses positive-reinforcement-only techniques" - Even though many dogs do not respond well to positive-reinforcement-only training, and many of the trainers who embrace this ideology also embrace a 'death before discomfort' mentality; meaning that if they fail you and your dog, they will recommend behavioral euthanasia rather than referring you to someone who CAN help, or delving into learning techniques that don't align with their personal narrative...

"Find someone you're comfortable with" - Okay, in most cases this is true...but read on a bit to find out when this is NOT helpful.

"Avoid anyone who corrects your dog, or uses corrective equipment"  WAIT.  WHAT???  

Considering that nearly 1/2 of dog owners are seeking help with problem behaviors - including aggression - correction of these behaviors may be exactly what some owners and dogs are looking for!

In keeping with the whole idea of dog training being able to both teach new, GOOD behaviors and to stop or fix BAD behaviors, most of the so-called expert advice on finding a dog trainer is sorely misleading.

It appears that most of these Find-a-Dog-Trainer posts were written by 3 types of authors:

• those who are drinking the kool-aid of 'All Positive' training
• AI
• those who are afraid to say anything helpful about finding a trainer who can deliver results, most likely for fear of backlash from the first group

So, here it is - from someone who's been training dogs for more than 33 years:  Let's debunk some myths, and talk about what people should REALLY be looking for when they're interviewing dog trainers.

#1  One word:  EXPERIENCE.  The dog training industry is indeed unregulated.  There is no single governing body that certifies trainers, or can tell you who is 'good,' 'great,' or 'terrible.'  

To complicate things more, almost every trainer out there has a website peppered with glowing reviews that all seem to say the same thing about how wonderful the trainer is.

So how is a dog owner to know which one to choose?

Well - considering the average, unregulated dog trainer will be in business for less than 5 years, looking at how long your trainer or facility has been open is a good start.  

Longevity means your trainer is doing something right, or they wouldn't still be in business.  But it also means they've most likely worked with many dogs and owners.

Wouldn't you rather work with someone who has trained thousands of dogs, as opposed to say, twenty?

#2  EQUIPMENT:  Unlike those vanilla posts about choosing only someone who uses only flat collars, harnesses, or head collars, let's get honest and accurate.

Any piece of training equipment can be misused and cause harm to a dog (or human).  This is true of all brands of leashes, collars of any & all types, harnesses, head collars, and yes, even treats.  

The real issue at stake is whether a trainer knows how to use many different tools effectively and safely; and can match the right tools to your dog and your situation.

A trainer who limits their tools and techniques is much more likely to end up failing a dog and owner when things don't work out than one who is open to - and well-versed in - the use of all dog training equipment and techniques.

And, of course, now we're back to that pesky #1 point - experience! 

#3  METHODS & TECHNIQUES:  Just like #2, do you really want a trainer who is limited in their 'toolbox' of knowledge and techniques?

Professional dog training should be a field in which trainers continue to learn new and alternate methods and techniques throughout their careers.  

Trainers who are enthusiastic about their training successes are one thing...but like everything else in life, those who are fanatical ideologues should be avoided.  Trainers who tell you their way is the ‘only way’ and everyone else is either ‘abusive’ or ‘too soft’ probably don’t fall into the right category for any owner or dog.

Quite simply put, there is no single 'right' way to train a dog, and I'd wager that the many owners who've spent good money trying multiple trainers until they found the one that could actually help them wish those first two (or three? or four?) trainers had been knowledgeable in more than one method, or one type of training equipment.

Want to know more? Check out our in-depth, extensive information about methods & training equipment here:  https://www.k9counselor.com/methods

#4  TITLES:  Trainers putting titles on their own dogs MEANS something.  As I mentioned in my previous article about titles, the trainer who competes with their own dog shows not only experience, dedication, and knowledge, but often has superior problem-solving skills - simply because they often think out of the box to reach higher and higher goals with their own dogs.  

This translates to someone well-qualified to help pet owners reach their goals, even if those goals don't include trophies and ribbons!

#5 COMFORT:  Yes, in most cases, you should like your dog trainer.  You should be able to relate to your dog trainer.  And you should feel comfortable with your dog trainer.  

After all, you're trusting your trainer with your best buddy's education.  If you're using a board and train facility, you're trusting them with his physical care as well as his education!

If you're doing training in person with a trainer who trains you, you're trusting that they can communicate with both you AND your dog in a way that will lead to success.

So - Question:  When is YOUR comfort not important in the dog owner/dog trainer relationship?

Answer:  When you're only looking to hear what you want to hear.  Sometimes, dog trainers have to be brutally, painfully honest with dog owners.  

This could happen if a truly dangerous dog is not responsive to any type of training or technique (rare, but it happens).

Or if a dog is a bad fit for a home (this may be due to the humans, or the dog...but again, it does happen).

This could also happen if the humans in the household are causing the dog's problems.  This is probably the most common occurrence when a dog trainer has to make an owner uncomfortable - but it's an important one...

If YOU are causing the issues for your dog, it's your dog trainer's responsibility to tell you that - and what you need to do differently to fix the problem.

A dog trainer who only tells you what you want to hear isn't going to help you solve problems and have the best relationship possible with your dog.

You need to find a trainer who communicates clearly with both you and your dog, and who can get you the results you're paying for.

Jennifer Hime, is the Owner & Training Director at Front Range K9 Academy in Wheat Ridge, CO.  She has been training dogs professionally in Colorado since 1990.  Jennifer can be reached through K9counselor.com.

What made you decide to train your dog?

This week in "What Goes on in this Dog Trainer's Mind..."

What made YOU decide to train your dog? (hit us up in the comments with your answers!)

I've often wondered this through my 33+ years as a professional trainer, and it just now dawned on me to ask!

In going about my everyday life, I see a lot of dogs. Some are well-behaved and happy - walking along nicely without pulling on their leashes, looking to their owners for guidance with devotion in their eyes, wagging and panting happily when they get a treat or meet a new person or discover a new smell.

On the other hand, I also see the not-so-well-behaved dogs, too! The ones straining out in front of their owners on straight, tight leashes, bouncing off every person they meet in over-stimulated excitement. These are the dogs who are often completely disconnected from their humans, and struggle in our human world - lunging, barking, digging, destroying things in the house, and maybe even experiencing actual aggression problems.

In today's world, there is no shortage of dog training information out there - from (often) free blogs, webinars, online training courses, youtube videos, and of course, the good ol' library - full of free books to read about dog behavior, no matter what type of training you're looking for.

A quick google search reveals that in the greater Denver area, there are hundreds of professional in-person dog training options (over 70 different options on the first 3 pages).

So...what made YOU decide to train your dog?

Was there a one-time incident that put you over the edge?

Have you always had dogs, and always gone to professional trainers, so it was a given that you'd do the same with your newest dog?

Did a friend or family member suggest training?

Did you meet a trained dog out in the world, and think, "Hey! I want a dog like that!"?

Did you see something on a tv show or social media that planted the seed in your mind that you wanted to go to training?

What was it that made you decide to train your dog? (And if you're feeling generous, we'd love to hear what made you decide to train with us at Front Range K9 Academy!)

Jennifer Hime, is the Owner & Training Director at Front Range K9 Academy in Wheat Ridge, CO.  She can be reached through K9counselor.com.